I”ve been writing my chapter on mending a broken heart, and as I told you in the first blog. I’m doing this in real time. I am heart broken. Like never before. And I’ve written in my book all the things to do. The time to take. The faith that is needed. But honestly… I am having a hard time. So please pray for me.Buddha said; every man is your teacher. So I am going to learn EVERY SINGLE thing I can from this one. Even though he betrayed me like no other. But I know God is at work. I’m holding onto that fact.
Blog#5 My Heart
08 Friday Jun 2012
Posted in Stay Dashings Begining
Only time will heal your broken heart, but try looking at life at different angles losing someone you love is like losing an arm at first it’s hard to believe, it’s frustrating without it, and you learn to cope with it, but as time goes by you realize that life does get better and when you try to see the beauty in life the pain slowly goes away. This man who hurt you has got to be the stupidest man on earth, your a diamond, your special , your beyond beautiful, you have the a sweet heart and just remember that when a man chose to hurt a woman that gave him everything it’s his loss not yours because the reality of it is that one day he’s going to need you and you won’t be there and he’s going to regret hurting a woman like you, he will bc men take a lot of things for granted but somehow taking.a good woman for granted seems to be their favorite. Again heartbreak is like dealing without an arm it’s hard, frustrating, it’s depressing but you learn to live without out it and you’ll soon see happiness trust me!!!! Love you Stacey and I’ll be praying for you!
Stacey, always keep in mind that betrayal is something both males and females do. There are many good men like there are also many good women. The worst thing about being betrayed in a relationship is not when your lover had an affair but the betrayal you feel in your heart, the way your trust and faith in someone has been betrayed. Always keep in mind that when someone betrayed you that deeply that person is not worth to be loved by you and is not worth to spend your life with you. For every lover that betrays you there will always be someone who will love you the way you deserve and who will be faithful to you in every way.
Always keep in mind that when someone betrays you you are never to blame, because betrayal is something someone else does to you. The only thing you could blame yourself for is that you didn’t see it coming.
So long as you don’t go applying everything that you’ve learnt from this one guy to all future guys I think you’ll be good. Every man can teach you something but not every man can teach you everything. You’ll be in my prayers and I know you’ll be fine.
With all due respect…typo – “begining” should be….”beginning,” – before someone else says something.
When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal. This to shall pass!!
You are not alone.
For I your maker am your husband.
Isaiah 54:5
WOW..Mending a broken heart…where does one begin? Is it true that time heals all wounds? I’m not sure Stacey, because the road is just a little different for each of us, as we travel this road called “LIFE”. Tough thing to do moving on, but one thing is for sure, Love yourself right now, take some time and do things that you want to do, things that make you feel good, things that make you feel like a woman should. Continue to be proud of who you are, because we, as fans are proud of you. I have loved you since the first time I ever saw you. You are the most beautiful woman that has ever walked on this earth, truly a gift from God himself and you should be treated as such. I for one cannot even begin to fathom what these men are thinking. My prayers are always with you, as they always have been. Keep your head up. As the good book says, “This too shall pass.” Love Ya
Mending a broken heart? I wish there was an easy way for that to happen…they say that time heals all wounds but that’s not exactly true by any means…sometimes a wound gets infected and the original wound gets worse, not healing…and that goes with broken hearts as well. Sometimes the person who broke your heart does things to make it worse. 8 1/2 months ago, a girl I was really close with broke my heart and in the time since then, her lies and broken promises have made things worse and worse for me.